Leo's Links and Recommendations on HR July 25 2023(3)
Links and Recommendations on HR July 25 2023
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- https://moonshotformankind.com/:: (includes video intro 2:31)
- https://realmenfeel.org/2019/08/27/ep-145-the-good-men-manifesto/:: (Jed Diamond August 27, 2019 podcast)
Jed Diamond:
- https://archive.org/details/insideoutbecomin00diam:: Inside Out: becoming my own man by Jed Diamond 1983)
- https://archive.org/search?query=Jed+Diamond:: (Other books by Jed to borrow online)
- https://archive.org/details/femininemystique0000frie_v1f8:: (The Feminie Mystique by Betty Frieddan 1964)
- https://archive.org/details/hazardsofbeingma00herb:: (The Hazards of Being Male: surviving the myth of masculine privilege byHerb Goldberg 1977)
- https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/48895142-12-rules-for-good-men:: (12 Rules for Good Men by Jed Diamond 2019)
- https://medium.com/change-becomes-you/long-live-men-our-moonshot-mission-for-mankind-and-humanity-e9f7f266fae7:: (By Jed Diamond Ph.D Sep 11, 2022)
Lisa Hickey:
- https://goodmenproject.com/:: (The Good Men Project, an American weblog founded by Tom Matlack in 2009. Wikipedia)
- https://archive.org/details/goodmenprojectre0000unse:: (The good men project : real stories from the front lines of modern manhood 2009 A collection of first-person stories about what it means to be a man in America today. The authors describe their defining challenges, losses and triumphs through honest and simple truths, and are hoping to spark conversations about what it means to be a good man today.)
- https://archive.org/details/rs21pa-Minding_Men_-_A_Conversation_with_Lisa_Hickey_of_The_Good_Men_Project:: ( 2021-07-19 podcast The Good Men Project was founded in 2009 by Tom Matlack and, soon after, Lisa Hickey as a way to allow men to tell stories about the defining moments in their lives. The hope was to spark a “national conversation” around the question of “What does it mean to be a good man?” Host Brian Pollack chats with publisher Lisa Hickey to learn more about the organization and its role in the world today.)
Shana James:
- https://shanajamescoaching.com/man-alive-podcast/:: (The Man Alive Podcast)
- https://poddtoppen.se/podcast/1153787018/the-studleys/marriage-shana-james-of-the-man-alive-podcast:: (52:52 Anatomy of Us podcast)
MaLe Corona:
- https://malewholeness.com/:: ("Weekly online men's group gatherings to restore your somatic nervous system, enhance the quality of your presence and practice embodied relating."
Frederic Marx:
- https://warriorfilms.org/portfolio/boys-to-men/:: (143 minutes 2003. This mini-series also tells the stories of three 15 year old boys over nine months. Though different across race and class, these boys, in shockingly similar ways, aren’t succeeding. Boys to Men? hints at the dire consequences.)
- https://warriorfilms.org/rites-of-passage/:: (free toolkits for parents, high schools, colleges, community groups, therapists and others, including short films)
- https://archive.org/search?query=David+Deida:: (The Way of the Superior Man and other Deida books to borrow.)
- https://www.goodreads.com/en/book/show/57436231:: (Rites to a Good Life: Everyday Rituals Of Healing And Transformation by Frederick Marx; Jack Kornfield, Preface 2021)
Carroy Ferguson:
Paul Hillery:
- https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8WUCM4Au174:: (3:57 Men (song) by Martin Mull)
Kurt Kueger:
- https://www.theworldfestorganization.org/:: (for FUN cultural transformation)
- https://o-trim.co/PeaceMaker:: (OnPassive, * Winning Ways for Living * (last volume in the bestselling series) ~ Three books in 1 to make your life better)
- https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL-knXCX5m1O7puzZNOqaSxh7IfK6xv7Ga:: (Peak Performance Prompters Youtube channel 361 videos)
- https://drive.google.com/file/d/11RZTR7gpPWGt8I1LcL-rpqjm8aY61NCk/view?usp=sharing:: (Abracadabra Empowering Communications 15pp) ~ Image20230725120708 Ubuntu handout posted in chat
- https://youtu.be/iAknrhuvPr0:: (The Peace Salute)
- https://archive.org/search?query=Wangari+Maathai+Unbowed%3A+A+Memoir:: (includes podcast links)
- https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kuFZk4czSdY:: (:26:48 Learn to Command The Spells of The English Language w/ Laurel Airica | Aubrey Marcus Podcast)
- https://fln.dignityeducation.org:: (Language/Literacy and Numeracy program)
- https://youtu.be/BdVyAQcxHfg:: (1:38:45 Introduction to Integral Education -- Part 1 of 2)
- https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tT03T7SlLb8:: (1:48:51 The Emerald Forest 1985 Full Movie. An Engineer working on a Dam project in the South American rain forest
has his son abducted by a tribe of Indians. 10 years later he finds his son who is now a full member of the tribe.)
Dr. Betty Woodman:
- https://archive.org/details/societiesatpeace00howe:: (Societies at peace : anthropological perspectives by Howell, Signe; Willis, Roy G. Papers originally presented at a conference held in June 1986 at the University of Edinburgh. Includes bibliographical references and indexes.
Introduction / Signe Howell and Roy Willis
-- Hobbesian and Rousseauan images of man : autonomy and individualism in a peaceful society / Clayton A. Robarchek
-- "To be angry is not to be human, but to be fearful is" : Chewong concepts of human nature / Signe Howell
-- Symbolic representations of tranquility and aggression among the Buid / Thomas Gibson
-- Styles of manhood : an Amazonian contrast in tranquillity and violence / Joanna Overing
-- Peace and violence in Bali : culture and social organization / L.E.A. Howe
-- The non-violent Zapotec / Carl W. O'Nell -- The "peace puzzle" in Ufipa / Roy Willis
-- "You only live in your body" : peace, exchange and the siege mentality in Ulster / Anthony D. Buckley
-- Child in society, and society in children : the nature of basic trust / Colwyn Trevarthen and Katerina Logotheti.
-- Sociality, not aggression, is the key human trait / Michael Carrithers
-- "Peace" / Alan Campbell
-- Identifying peaceful societies / Paul Heelas
- https://archive.org/details/chaliceblade00eisl:: (The chalice and the blade : our history, our futureby Riane TennenhausEisler, 1987)
Douglas Fry recommended by Betty:
- https://www.counterpunch.org/2021/04/12/how-humanity-can-realistically-prevent-new-wars-an-interview-with-nthropologist-douglas-p-fry/:: (BY APRIL M. SHORT April 12, 2021)
- https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uz9xPBQ_CO0:: (1:40:05 #253 Douglas Fry: Is War Part Of Human Nature? In this episode, we focus on the anthropology of war. Dr. Fry critiques the evolutionary psychology approach to war. · The Dissenter · Nov 8, 2019)
- https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qTiJW2ETqy8:: (1:21:05 Questioning Assumptions about War and Human Nature. Douglas P. Fry is Professor and Chair of the Department of Peace, University of North Carolina at Greensboro · The Nicky Rew Podcast · Oct 20, 2020)
Ola Akinwe:
Invites you to: Exploring Boys Feminization in the 21st Century, Saturday, July 29, 2023 11 am ET on Zoom 848 0935 5758 Passcode: BMAN
Diana:
- https://archive.org/details/languagethoughtr0000john:: (language, thought, and reality: selected writings of Benjamin Lee Whorf by john b. carroll, ed. and intro.; Stuart Chase, foreword 1956)
- https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Miracle_of_Bern:: (2003 film)
- https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=og1RAWvnpA0:: (WATCH 1:53:05 as Wunder Von Bern / The Miracle of Bern (2003) (VI/EN subtitles)
- https://othernetworks.org/HR!Day263:: (HR Day 263 From Boy to Man - The Need for Initiation, focused on the Boy Crisis and the need, the requirement for boys to be properly and formally initiated into manhood. Native cultures throughout the world have understood that a boy’s passage into manhood must be marked and celebrated in order for him to shift his consciousness from the playfulness of childhood, when you’re told what to do, to the responsibilities of manhood, when you contribute to your tribe or society.)
Stan:
- https://www.othernetworks.org/HR!Day367-1:: (1:44:24 Man in Relationship to the Natural World (Ipswa spoke) episode includes a talk by Ipswa about raising youth and an apology to women)
On Matriarchy
- https://www.spdbooks.org/Products/9780978223359/societies-of-peace-matriarchies-past-present-and-future.aspx:: (Societies of Peace: Matriarchies Past, Present and Future by Heidi Goettner-Abendroth, Editor 8/30/2009. 449 pp. celebrates women's largely ignored and/or invisible contribution to culture by exploring matriarchal societies that have existed in the past and that continue to exist today in certain parts of the world. Matriarchal societies, primarily shaped by women, have a non violent social order in which all living creatures are respected without the exploitation of humans, animals or nature. They are well-balanced and peaceful societies in which domination is unknown and all beings are treated equally. This book presents these largely misunderstood societies, both past and present, to the wider public, as alternative social and cultural models that promote trust, mutuality, and abundance for all.)
- https://matriarchalstudies.com/:: (Copyright 2013 and 2019, by Barbara Alice Mann and Heide Göttner-Abendroth. First published at Oxford University Press and re-used with kind permission.)
- https://www.jstor.org/stable/23927538:: (Review of Societies of Peace by: CAROL P. CHRIST 2012)
Daniel (Thoth Trismegistus: