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Humanity Rising Day 128 Chat Page
- Date: Friday October 30, 2020 (2020-10-30)
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Text of the Zoom Chat from HR Day 128:
From: Sharon Truax (12:01 PM) Good Morning to all From: Seattle. Back on track here. Standing in the One. Rising above duality.
From: Liliane Mavridara (12:02 PM) Happy Friday everyone!
From: Doreen Tanenbaum (12:03 PM) Good Afternoon From: the sunny woods of North Carolina
From: Ian Lewis (12:03 PM) Thank you. Greetings From: UK - Langrish - this is another great day in this wild and precious life.
From: Sharon Truax (12:03 PM) @ian Yes! Hang on its going to be a rocky ride.
From: Doreen Tanenbaum (12:05 PM) TNCBhat’s how I see it to Jim….notice only MS
From: Cindy Bledsoe (12:06 PM) Loving greetings From: the sunny coast of South Carolina
From: Ian Lewis (12:06 PM)
- ))) now this is lucky - I run Campaign for Adventure and lifecollege.org - non-profits moneywise, huge value life-wise :))
From: Doreen Tanenbaum (12:06 PM) Noticed only MSNBC is covering the hacking right none…nothing on the other networks about the hackers so far.
From: Sharon Truax (12:07 PM) Contiue to sow to the Spirit!
From: Barbro Esbjörnsdotter (12:08 PM) Have not heard anything about this hacking on the news. why?
From: Georg Boch (12:09 PM) https://edition.cnn.com/2020/10/28/politics/hospitals-targeted-ransomware-attacks/index.html
From: Doreen Tanenbaum (12:10 PM) @Barbro …only MSNBC covered the hacking last night at 9 PM) , did not see that the other networks covered it this morning
From: Me (12:11 PM) . ..oOo.. ========================== Dear Chat PEOPLE and panelists Some of us are gathering in a Zoom meeting after this session closes. You can join the Zoom Meeting https://us02web.zoom.us/j/81045613451?pwd=S1JxSE9WNzJQV2JKSXhhaFZ3Wng1UT09 Meeting ID: 810 4561 3451 Passcode: 919541 . ..oOo.. ========================== . We have an email list for Chat People to interact without being on at the same time. We also send a daily message to the list that points to all of the HR Chats since mid July. Write to be added to the list: -- stan@communitymagic.org ==========================
From: Barbro Esbjörnsdotter (12:11 PM) thanks!
From: Kurt Krueger (12:12 PM) ANYONE in other countries can CONTACT their American friends and get them out to vote! Call them find out their ideas on the voting then - when they ARE FOR BIDEN, MAKE SURE THAT THEY VOTE EARLY!
From: Sharon Truax (12:12 PM) Wow! Thank you. Hearts as wide as the world. Beautiful.
From: Kat Haber (12:12 PM) Yes, Kurt. Expats please find ways to influence your networks and VOTE, if you can.
From: Sharon Truax (12:13 PM) Welcome Dieuwke.
From: Doreen Tanenbaum (12:13 PM) @Barbro….I have been viewing what different media is put out on the USA political race….I find that 9PM) MSNBC Rachel Maddow gives the best coverage for the overview.
From: AMY A BLUMENSHINE (12:15 PM) As to why we don’t hear more about ransom-ware attacks is that many of the institutions pay the ransom and do not want that publicized. They could be blamed for not adequately protecting their system and also for cooperating with crime.
From: Barbro Esbjörnsdotter (12:15 PM) Thanks Doreen, I live in Sweden and we haven't heard anything yet.. I will try to inform myself
From: Doreen Tanenbaum (12:16 PM) You are welcome Barbro
From: Barbro Esbjörnsdotter (12:17 PM) I also find people in Moscow very friendly and eager to learn and discuss!
From: Doreen Tanenbaum (12:18 PM) You can check out Rachel Maddow daily program on youtube @ Barbro
From: Barbro Esbjörnsdotter (12:18 PM) Doreen, thanks!
From: Cindy Bledsoe (12:19 PM) Recommended Reading: The Spiritually Confident Man (Co-creative masculinity) https://www.amazon.com/Spiritually-Confident-Man-Co-Creative-Masculinity/dp/0989320332
From: Liliane Mavridara (12:20 PM) Thanatos=death
From: Cindy Bledsoe (12:21 PM) Hospital Cyber Attacks Warning: https://www.nytimes.com/2020/10/28/us/hospitals-cyberattacks-coronavirus.html Four times as many women have left the US workforce since the start of the pandemic, largely due to childcare responsibilities. (US Bur of Labor From: Cindy Bledsoe (12:26 PM)
- 4x as many woman as men
From: Ian Lewis (12:27 PM) Nice to ignore the news and follow the process of developing humanity. Causing conflict to have no value is a great thought....no cybering, no national boundaries, not 'they' - only we, us, now and here. Possibly time to review the value of new people n our planet....
From: Sharon Truax (12:28 PM) @Dieuwke Now, I know why my path has been in the arts and spirituality. I give thanks for having been a latch key kid with no computer or television.. And for leaving corporate America.
From: Ian Lewis (12:29 PM) @Sharon :) From: Cindy Bledsoe (12:30 PM) …..I've often wondered why we drive past so many neighbors to drive our children across town for childcare. Can the village offer a better solution for childcare? And build stronger interconnected communities in the process? Our current models are patriarchal.
From: Shannon McArthur (12:31 PM) @Cindy take a look at http:/ourheartgardens.com
From: Cindy Bledsoe (12:32 PM) Thank you! @Shannon
From: Shannon McArthur (12:33 PM)
From: Doreen Tanenbaum (12:33 PM) Our highest priority is our children and the care of those that need support.
From: Kurt Krueger (12:34 PM) YES, THE INTUITIVE AND ‘LOGICAL, The WHOLE BRAIN, The whole body Heart connected to the brain… etc. SUCCESS SYSTEMS INTERNATIONAL!
From: Ian Lewis (12:35 PM) Certainly 'here' not there; certainly 'I', not they, certainly my move, not theirs. It is foretold that s/he who steps first will be seen as the lead. This is the framework of culture and learning we might seek to find a way to alter.
From: Sharon Truax (12:36 PM) @Shannon The Venice art community was in the pioneered in one of "those communities." It was vibrant and alive with all possibilities. This is where I opened a garden in 1975. The health clinic was a model that served the greater Los Angles community.
From: Shannon McArthur (12:38 PM) @Sharon - we have much to talk about!!
From: Liliane Mavridara (12:39 PM) @Shannon, ask and you shall receive <3
From: Doreen Tanenbaum (12:39 PM) @Dieuwke- Thank you for your presentation!
From: Sharon Truax (12:41 PM) Welcome Claire. Yes, Taiwan I visited Taipei in 1967.
From: Shannon McArthur (12:43 PM) @Liliane… thanks ;no excuses - grow!! this is what Our Heart Gardens is based on and growing the food we need
From: Sharon Truax (12:46 PM) @claire, Yes, a beautiful relationship. Deep listening a separate lives but together. I had it with my partner, a painter, and published poet. (Dutch) Part of an organic community.
From: Lesley Southwick-Trask (12:46 PM) How has your work embraced the significance of generational evolution - my millennial children show up much differently in their male/female roles- professionally and personally than my generation
From: Doreen Tanenbaum (12:46 PM) Very inspiration to see you both Claire and Andy and hear your commitment to each other and bring it into your business
From: Shannon McArthur (12:46 PM) I was in Taiwan in 1986… beautiful land & people
From: Sharon Truax (12:47 PM) @shannon Ooooh. @Andy What a gift you have. together.
From: Shannon McArthur (12:49 PM) appreciating the gifts we each have been given
From: Sharon Truax (12:51 PM) @Dieuwke Beautiful story.
From: Liliane Mavridara (12:51 PM) What an amazing story!
From: Shannon McArthur (12:52 PM) I love that we are put where we need to be… and learn lessons From: the hardships.
From: AMY A BLUMENSHINE (12:55 PM) Please write the name of the party.
From: Reinier van Lanschot (12:55 PM) Volt www.volteuropa.org
From: AMY A BLUMENSHINE (12:56 PM) Thank you, Reinier!
From: Reinier van Lanschot (12:56 PM) You’re welcome
From: Sharon Truax (12:58 PM) @Dieuwke Yes, stand for something, Welcome Valerie and Reinier
From: Liliane Mavridara (1:00 PM) @Valerie, are you based in Holland? got my answer
From: Sharon Truax (1:02 PM) @Reinier. Yes! so Powerful. Let it unfold..
From: Diane Skidmore (1:06 PM) so glad to hear these two say that it's difficult to answer re gender as being relevant!
From: Cindy Bledsoe (1:06 PM) Beautiful story of joining unique geniuses in vocational arousal for birthing high functioning co-creation. Such an evolutionary response.
From: Diane Skidmore (1:07 PM) @Cindy Yes
@Valerie, how did you and Reinier, find eachother? Seems like something is evolving us.
Thank you for the slides this is helpful Makes so much sense
In terms pf small business develoPM)ent - it often has to do with access to capital …yes?
Thank you Valerie
So many of us are also “Mixed up” …
@Dieuwke, Beautiful thank you. What a great team. Great presentation.
@Jim - thanks : Generational difference is big-time.
@leslie - thanks for question
Love the comment earlier From: Andy Fleming - "Individual develoPM)ent …….a team spirit" (regardless of gender I guess/hope
Thinking of the notion of healing collective trauma to support the natural shared leadership tendencies in new generations - and a shift in our DNA.
yes, this is so true!
@valerie - I can relate to your quals From: both women and men - thanks for sharing your response
@Jim Hopefully, leading to the One.,
That's why education can help to encourage people to just be a person - regardless of gender
some are he today and she tomorrow. We need to change our concept…just like Jim is saying
Since the early 90’s our Physical Education department worked as a dynamic team creating the Best program in the state of California. Nearly totally balancesd in gender and “joint control. Teamwork, collaboration, character were the hallmarks of our team and the entire program, and the students got to learn with it. Walking the Chartres Labyrinth as. Acontemplatinve walk, trust walk, agility drill, etc. They created their own new GAMES!
@Marcia Yes
We got to learn form the students
why not call them human traits
In EU we can feel these cultural differences much more than we do in US.
it is the transition, @marcia… we’re getting there and the path will be walked by all… imho
Hey ChatPeople - sign up for our workshop with Sally Annett TOMORROW for our deep dive into the divine masculine and divine feminine.
Looking at people and how they have changed, it makes me/us wonder whether the chemical content in our diet/water has affected the make-up of the human being
I don’t think it’s the water, Diane. I think it’s called evolution.
@Lesley, thank you, yes!
The concept is still valid. We can begin teach leadership traits in different ways
@marcia @diane - maybe it's both?
I just need to note that our human bodies are impacted by ingesting pollutants, including hormone interruptors From: plastics. Our bodies are changing.
@Marilyn and @Marcia - yes. Highly possible!
we are always adapting…
The feminine and masculine are two pillars which stand either side of our column of central consciousness. Male and female parts dwell within all of us in all four worlds of being; material, psychological, intellectual and divine and the aim, for humanity (for me) is unity thought the equilibrium of this trinity. Date: Saturday, October 31st 2020 Time: Same as HR’s main event this week. (5:00 CET; 1:00PM) ADT; 12:00PM) EDT; 11am CDT; 10am MDT; 9:00 am PDT) Duration: 1.5 hours
Amy is probably right and so Diane, you’re probably right also. the scientists would have to answer those questions.
We still have generational and gender issues to deal with
@too close to see it.
Growth hormones in meats also affect all life
States of mind (and therefore culture) also have a big effect
In line with today’s theme, I had the opportunity to write a review about a book that may have some relevance. It was titled “Healing The War Between The Genders: The Power of Soul-Centered Relationships” by Linda Marks. Here’s the link to that book: https://www.amazon.com/Healing-War-Between-Genders-Soul-Centered/dp/0974452203.
For each individual the natural balance for masculine - feminine and vice versa probably close to 0.618034. In the patriarchally dominated world we have, balance tilted strongly to logical >>>intuitive. The patriarchal thrust seems to have exhausted itself and the feminine is rising bringing us more into balance. Wonderful! - David Stoney
From: Shannon McArthur (1:23 PM) @David S, yes, love your perspective
From: Kat Haber (1:24 PM) Women are now astronauts in the USA. When I was a cadet at the United States Air Force academy most of the generals of the services declared women would not graduate From: any of the academies. 1977-80. By the time I left we were at 87% attrition. in 2014 when I walked the southern part of the Academy the 3 star general in charge of USAFA was my classmate, Michell Johnson, who was still struggling with sexual harassment there.
From: Rachel Root (1:24 PM) My husband and I know what we do well and what we don’t do well individually so that helps us tremendously
From: Diane Skidmore (1:24 PM) @David. Yes, certainly the feminine is rising. Great (hahaha From: Liliane Mavridara (1:24 PM) Excellent question Jim!
From: Cindy Bledsoe (1:24 PM) Epigenetics at play most definitely. We each chose to be here now to help us shift From: patriarchy to a balanced collective intelligence.
From: Lesley Southwick-Trask (1:24 PM) @Jim - we will pick this up in the chat
From: Sharon Truax (1:24 PM) @David thank you for sharing.
From: Kurt Krueger (1:24 PM) Viva la diference
From: Diane Skidmore (1:25 PM) Let's hope the struggles end as people are actively working towards harmony
From: Doreen Tanenbaum (1:25 PM) It depends in the relationship how you see the mirroring….shadowing accepting the responsibility that it is all within me and work/cleansing the negativity of what comes up
From: Shannon McArthur (1:25 PM) The After HR Chat will be hopping today!!
From: Cindy Bledsoe (1:25 PM) Shared leadership power is based on abundance; patriarchy thrives on lack.
From: Lesley Southwick-Trask (1:25 PM) shadow of shared gender relationships when it comes to power - backroom politics
From: Kat Haber (1:25 PM) We do share personality characteristics. Females do have a different understanding of the cycle nature of life From: what naturally occurs in our bodies: moon time, bringing life through birth.
From: Liliane Mavridara (1:26 PM) The shadow will arise whether consciously or unconsciously.
From: Diane Skidmore (1:26 PM) Growing towards more balance - brilliant @Claire
From: Georg Boch (1:26 PM) Chat people, please share the after party link :- From: Kat Haber (1:26 PM) @Valerie-yes, fear of competition is what drives many men away From: sharing leadership.
From: Liliane Mavridara (1:26 PM) @Valerie, very wise
From: Cindy Bledsoe (1:28 PM) Ego values lack in others. Shared leadership embraces cocreative genius.
From: Diane Skidmore (1:28 PM) Brill @ Valerie - management is huge
From: Leo Jacoby (1:28 PM) Dear Chat PEOPLE and panelists Some of us are gathering in a Zoom meeting after this session closes. You can join the Zoom Meeting https://us02web.zoom.us/j/81045613451?pwd=S1JxSE9WNzJQV2JKSXhhaFZ3Wng1UT09 Meeting ID: 810 4561 3451 Passcode: 919541
From: Diane Skidmore (1:28 PM) Individual as well as joined up
From: Shannon McArthur (1:28 PM) To become one of the Chat-People and have face to face dialogue with each other, come to Stan’s After-HR Zoom Room and let’s continue diving into the Masculine & Feminine
From: Kat Haber (1:28 PM) Several business women I know are more driven than male business leaders. Our opportunity is to find a pathway that does not generalize and brings the best of each of us to the surface…until then balance with male/female in quantity until we identify pathways to quality of leadership shared?
From: Diane Skidmore (1:29 PM) @Kat Perfect!!
From: Liliane Mavridara (1:29 PM) Thank you Everyone!
From: Cindy Bledsoe (1:29 PM) The SynCon process is a lovely process for identifying where to share your leadership and identify partnerships.
From: Diane Skidmore (1:29 PM) Bring out the best in everyone - together!!
From: Sharon Truax (1:29 PM) Life's SNAFU.
From: Rachel Root (1:29 PM) Thank you all
From: Kat Haber (1:29 PM) Yaya CHILE! Vamonos todo juntos! WE belong to each other.
From: Cindy Bledsoe (1:30 PM) dance for Chile!
From: AMY A BLUMENSHINE (1:30 PM) Dancing always a good idea!
From: Ian Lewis (1:30 PM) We only need one. Why do we see more than one? We are one. Male/female, by giving this time, erodes us. Just stop it...
From: Diane Skidmore (1:30 PM) We are ONE again xxxxx
From: Me (1:30 PM) . ..oOo.. Some of us are gathering in a Zoom meeting after this session closes. You can join the Zoom Meeting https://us02web.zoom.us/j/81045613451?pwd=S1JxSE9WNzJQV2JKSXhhaFZ3Wng1UT09 Meeting ID: 810 4561 3451 Passcode: 919541
From: Georg Boch (1:30 PM) Over there….you sound like a European Jim :- From: Sharon Truax (1:31 PM) Thank you All. Another stellar day. So much to savor.
From: Kat Haber (1:31 PM) Having faith, trusting this will evolve into ever more loving life in EARTH. Thank you all!
From: Cindy Bledsoe (1:31 PM) Juicy conversation today. Thank you all.
From: Sharon Truax (1:31 PM) @Kat ditto
From: Doreen Tanenbaum (1:31 PM) So right Jim!!!!!!!
From: Diane Skidmore (1:31 PM) Thank you ALL xxx
From: Shannon McArthur (1:31 PM) @Ian, yes do it - but /and understand that others are not ‘there’ yet.
From: Ian Lewis (1:32 PM) Thank you alllllll……:)) From: Kat Haber (1:32 PM) Breathing…
From: Valerie Steinberg (1:32 PM) I cannot join the after session but hope to Keep in touch! Thank you so much for this great session!
From: David Stoney (1:32 PM) Thanks to all and to all health and wholeness